A structured, science-backed system for men who don't have a year
to waste on a break up...
with a guarantee no therapist would ever offer.
It's 3 AM. You can't sleep. You can't focus.
You've checked her Instagram seventeen times today even though you know it's destroying you.
The shame is unbearable. The desperation to get her back—or at least understand what happened—feels like an addiction you can't kick.
You're replaying the same conversation for the hundredth time. You know every word she said. Every inflection. You've analyzed it from every angle, searching for the moment it all went wrong. Your friends tell you to "get back out there." Your therapist says "it takes time to heal." But they don't understand what this actually feels like.
The guilt eats at you. Maybe if you'd been different. Said the right thing. Been more present. Less needy. More successful.
The shame of missing someone who clearly doesn't miss you back makes you feel pathetic.
And the fear? The fear is paralyzing. That you'll never feel this way about anyone again. That you blew your last shot at real love.
That you're going to be alone forever while she moves on in two weeks like you never existed.
Whether she was the one who ran hot and cold—making you feel like a king one day and invisible the next—or whether
she just woke up one morning and decided she didn't want you anymore, the result is the same:
You feel like you're losing your mind.
You've been walking on eggshells for months, managing emotions that weren't yours to manage, convincing yourself things would get better. Or maybe it was good until it wasn't—until she just... left. Either way, you're stuck in the same hell:
Grieving a future that's never going to happen
Addicted to validation you're never getting back
Questioning who you even are without her
Sitting in a room talking about your feelings for months (or years) while your therapist nods sympathetically? That's designed for women. It's slow.
It's open-ended. It's built to explore emotions, not solve problems.
You don't need exploration. You need extraction.
Most breakup advice is airy-fairy nonsense—journaling, self-care Sundays, "focusing on yourself."
That might work for casual breakups. This isn't casual. This is a crisis.
You need a crisis interventionist. Not a therapist who'll milk you for years.
You need someone who understands that high-performing men need linear, scientific, outcome-oriented solutions.
Someone who can get you from "I can't get out of bed" to "I'm better than I've ever been" in 12 weeks. Not 12 months. Not "when you're ready."
12 weeks. In and out. Fixed.
The Unbreakable Protocol isn't therapy. It's not coaching. It's a systematic intervention designed to do three things:
Break the addiction cycle
You'll stop obsessively checking her social media. Stop replaying conversations at 3 AM. Stop feeling that physical pull to reach out. The compulsion ends—not through willpower, but through neuroscience.
Eliminate the emotional chaos
The guilt, shame, and despair that's eating you alive? Gone. You'll process what happened without getting stuck in it. You'll understand why this hurt so much without letting it define you. You'll grieve what you lost without being destroyed by it.
Rebuild a stronger identity
You won't just "move on." You'll become
a fundamentally different man—one who would never tolerate what you just went through. You'll outgrow the version of yourself that accepted less than you deserved. You'll use this crisis as fuel to become unbreakable.
The Outcome:
This is a high-intensity, 12-week container for men who are serious about transformation.
Weekly 1-on-1 coaching sessions — Direct work with me, every week, for 12 weeks. This is where the real transformation happens.
Weekly group calls — You'll be surrounded by men who've built companies, closed eight-figure deals, and led teams of hundreds—going through the exact same thing you are. This isn't a support group. It's a private network of high-caliber men who've seen each other at rock bottom and rebuilt together.
The full Unbreakable Protocol — 12 weeks of video modules and written materials you can revisit anytime. The framework, the science, the exercises—all of it.
Direct access to me, 5 days a week — This is non-negotiable. Between sessions, you'll have a lifeline via WhatsApp or Voxer. When you're about to break no contact at 2am, when something triggers you, when you need a reset—I'm there. Think of it like a sponsor in AA. You don't just get a session and crash for a week.
If you're looking for cheap advice, endless "processing," or someone to tell you it's okay to wallow—this isn't it.
But if you're ready to use this breakup as a catalyst to become the strongest version of yourself—let's talk.
My name is Alex Komodo, J.D. (Intl), B.S. (Psych).
Eight years ago, I was a successful attorney. Degrees in law and psychology. A career I'd built for over a decade. A relationship I thought was leading somewhere.
Then my grandmother—the woman who raised me—was diagnosed with cancer. For six months, I watched her die. The day I came home from her funeral, my girlfriend ended it. “I think we should see other people.” Blindsided. No warning.
The breakup didn't just end the relationship—it destroyed my life. I imploded. I lost my career. I lost my sense of self. I lost everything I'd built. For months, I couldn't function. Couldn't work. Couldn't sleep. My friends considered me one of the most capable men they knew. Reduced to checking my phone every five minutes like an addict.

Traditional therapy didn't help. Talking about my feelings week after week wasn't solving the problem—it was keeping me stuck in it.
I needed a solution, not sympathy.
But I had one advantage most men don't: I understood the psychology. I knew what was happening in my brain—the addiction pathways, the grief response, the identity dissolution. So I stopped treating my breakup like a feeling I needed to wait out and started treating it like what it actually was: a neurological and psychological crisis that required a structured intervention.
So I built one.
It took about three months. The same twelve weeks I now guide my clients through.
I've spent thousands of hours refining this process—studying attachment science, addiction psychology, and identity reconstruction. I've been a guest at professional development conferences and leading universities, talking about why traditional advice fails and what actually works.
I never planned to turn this into a business. Frankly, Big Law is a lot more lucrative... But when I started sharing what I'd learned, I realized how many men were stuck in the same place I'd been—smart, successful men who had no framework for what they were experiencing. They'd tried everything. Nothing worked. Because nothing was designed to work.
The Unbreakable Protocol was.
In the past eight years, I've guided thousands of men through this process. The results are consistent: men who couldn't get out of bed are thriving. Men who thought they'd never love again are in better relationships than they've ever had. Men who were convinced they'd lost their last chance are looking back at their ex with something close to disbelief—wondering why they ever gave her that much power.
That's where you'll be in twelve weeks.
I work with a limited number of men at any given time—typically six to eight. That's not a marketing line. It's the reality of offering the level of access this program requires. If I'm at capacity when you apply, I'll let you know the wait time.
I'm not here to be your friend. I'm not here to make you feel comfortable. I'm here to get you out of this crisis and into the next chapter of your life.
Three months. Done.
That's my promise.
If you're not better in 12 weeks, we keep going until you are.
If you do the work, show up to the sessions, follow the protocol, and you're still not where you need to be at the end of 12 weeks, I'll continue working with you at no additional cost until you are.
I can make this guarantee because the protocol works. I've seen it work thousands of times. But I also know every man's situation is different, and some take longer than others.
What matters is that you get the result, not that we hit an arbitrary deadline.
That is my commitment to your rebuild.
THAT is my confidence in the effectiveness of The Protocol.
"I came to Alex convinced I'd lost the love of my life. I was barely sleeping, couldn't focus at work, checking her Instagram every hour. By week 6, I felt like a different person. By week 12, I genuinely didn't care anymore. Not in a bitter way—I just moved on. I'm dating someone better now, and I almost laugh at how destroyed I was. This works."
— [Name], [Age], [City/Profession]
"I tried therapy for months before finding Alex. My therapist was kind, but I wasn't getting better. Alex's approach is completely different—it's structured, it's direct, and it actually addresses what's happening in your brain. The 24/5 access was huge for me. There were moments I would have relapsed without that lifeline."
— [Name], [Age], [City/Profession]
"My ex had BPD. The relationship was chaos, but I was addicted to her. I'd tried to leave multiple times and always went back. Alex understood the dynamic immediately—apparently half his clients are leaving relationships like mine. He helped me see what I was actually addicted to and break the cycle for good. It's been over a year. I have zero desire to go back."
— [Name], [Age], [City/Profession]
"I was skeptical about 'coaching.' I'm a [profession], I solve problems for a living—I figured I should be able to handle this myself. But I'd been stuck for four months and nothing was changing. Alex's protocol gave me the structure I needed. It's not therapy. It's more like a system. And the system works."
— [Name], [Age], [City/Profession]
The Unbreakable Protocol is built for men who:
Are successful in their careers but feel like their personal life is falling apart
Have tried to push through, distract themselves, or "just get over it"—and nothing's working
Are tired of feeling controlled by someone who isn't even in their life anymore
Want a structured, no-bullshit approach—not endless open-ended therapy sessions
Are ready to invest in themselves the same way they'd invest in their business or career
Understand that twelve weeks of focused work beats twelve months of suffering
If you're looking for someone to validate your pain indefinitely, this isn't it. If you want to fix this, keep reading.
Therapy is often open-ended, exploratory, and focused on processing emotions at whatever pace feels comfortable. That's useful for some things. It's not designed for this.
The Unbreakable Protocol is structured, time-bound, and treats breakup recovery as a specific psychological problem with a specific solution. We're not here to explore your childhood for months. We're here to break an addiction, process grief, and rebuild your identity in twelve weeks.
Yes. The length of time you've been suffering has more to do with your approach than the severity of the breakup. Men who've been stuck for six months or a year often make rapid progress once they have the right framework. Twelve weeks is enough time—if you do the work.
That's normal. Part of your brain is still addicted. But here's what I can tell you: by the end of this process, you won't want her back. You'll see the relationship clearly—what it actually was, not what you hoped it would be. Every client I've worked with reaches this point. It's not a loss. It's clarity.
Extensively. About half my clients are coming out of relationships with high-conflict, emotionally dysregulated, or personality-disordered partners. These situations require a specific understanding—of trauma bonding, intermittent reinforcement, the addiction cycle unique to these dynamics. I specialize in this.
One coaching session per week (60-90 minutes), one group call per week (60 minutes), plus the course materials at your own pace. The real work happens in how you live your life between sessions—following the protocol, staying in contact with me when you need support, doing the exercises. Budget a few hours per week total.
Completely. What you share in our sessions stays between us. Group calls are also confidential—what's shared in the group stays in the group. This is a space for men to be honest about what they're going through.
The guarantee requires one thing from you: compliance. Follow the protocol. Do the exercises. Show up. If you do all of that and you're still stuck after 12 weeks, I'll keep working with you until you're not. That's it. I don't need a page of fine print because I've never had a client who followed the protocol and didn't get better. Your only job is to show up and follow instructions. I'll handle the rest.
P.S. — You've probably read a dozen sales pages like this. Here's what makes this one different: if you do the work and you're not fixed in 12 weeks, I keep working with you until you are. Free. I don't make that offer because I'm generous. I make it because I've never had to honor it.